Dorothy Marie Spitzer, 1923-2012

Dorothy “Dottie” Marie (Hayes) Spitzer, 88, departed this physical world on the morning of June 3, 2012 in Marin County, CA from complications following a fall in her home. Dorothy was a wonderful loving soul, a dedicated mother, an adored friend, a cherished grandmother and great grandmother, and a beloved mother-in-law and aunt. Dottie’s goal in life was to raise her children and grandchildren to be resilient, empowered, and loving individuals able to make positive changes in the world. With unconditional love, a sentimental heart, and courage, Dorothy modeled how to be tough yet kind while embracing the virtues of a religious woman. Dot’s willingness to volunteer, and come to the aid of loved ones in distress made a real difference in the lives of those she touched.

Born to Grace and Leo Hayes on Sept 19th, 1923 in Kenmore, New York, Dorothy graduated from Kenmore High School. Dorothy’s father, Leo, introduced her to Robert Franklin Spitzer, her future husband. Following their marriage on February 16th, 1946, Dorothy and Robert raised 5 boys and 2 girls. Loyalty to husband and children entailed moves within New York, Indiana, and Maryland. Her husband Robert’s early death weighed heavily on Dorothy's heart, but she bravely shouldered the responsibility of being the matriarch of her family. Dorothy eventually moved to California to assist in raising her grandchildren. Being active in church, community, and school affairs allowed Dottie to share her gregarious, fun loving, and humorous personality that others adored. She is dearly missed by all.

Dorothy is survived by her 7 children—Dave, Doug, Dan, Kevin, Keith, Donna and Mary Ann, 10 grandchildren—Mindy, Chris, Taylor, Adrienne, Gabe, Nolan, Gus, Noah, Emma and Tyler, and 2 great grandchildren—Charlie and Juliet.